“As a child, I walked through the world and awe. Each day started with a question and ended with a question. I had the mind of a beginner.” ~Anonymous

I am a woman in position to change and stand strong. I will not pretend to tell you that my life is glorious. But, I can say  I once had hate and lived with fear and it left me with a decision to fight and let go all my garbage, for I am a woman in position of change and choice of positive attitude today.

Did you know that me, you and everyone else in this world keeps lying to ourselves, we question ourselves each day about our self growth; where am I going? What is my purpose in life? How am I going to live? As a woman we are in view of change in our lives and we not only endure physical bruises, but non visible pains endured rested squarely in the business world of political power, business of the sweet science of boxing; rather it is business of motherhood, we try to make a name for ourselves.

We women warriors strive to go deeper for our personal identity through our experiences. We do have a story to tell and as a woman in position to change and stand strong by choice. I will go at any extent to achieve victory for change now! To share for greatness and being true to my individuality, in order to move forward by choice. I am a woman in position to be bold enough to step out. All of us can be aware of who we are, you know and I know our life experiences is a lesson to bring us closer, its only the basic challenge of our woman warriorness, it makes so much sense to me.

What about you? Does this make sense? Keeping our sanity means self love and self – caring. Your view of reality is different from everybody in this world. Self respect will begin to grow and not feel we are going crazy. As I understand your deep, inner self is the self that is greater than whom you seem to be on the surface. In order to change by choice is we must find the power within. There is a power in me that am greater than the small self I’ve been accustomed to, it’s larger than the way I’ve been trained to think about whom I am.

I surrender to a part of me that carries wisdom and truth. Entering a new life with awareness and change, striving for improvement in my character and ability. I share openly from my life experiences, know what  is right for me but not imposing on others. I respect that others may not agree or see things as I do and I’m accepting of that. I do however, trust my own feelings and intuitions as my personal guide through God. I am tolerant of others, I laugh, joke and smile with others, it comes unexpected. Harmony and Balance.

Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self – controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. ~ 1 Peter 5:6-8

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Claiming position of power. What is true for myself.

Everybody wants change in their lives. We live in an unknown mask world, and its moving fast. I admit my powerlessness. Do you? We fear of being exposed, unable to change and our love ones intervenes, to understand or trying to change us of the powerful evilness that exist in our lives.  You have challenging truth ahead, a focus of interest. Communication without consideration is what occurs when a business deal goes down with just an exchange of words with no deeper meaning or feelings behind them.

Right communication is forgotten in society, really. Sometimes, it’s not easy when you don’t do what you must do, and that is to truly communicate from within. This starts by understanding that true respect comes from the heart. It is the basis of right communication.

How can you say you want to change when truly not ready to make your obligations? It has now taken me four years! I was actually in mourning of retiring from my boxing career and going through changes with a TBI (traumatic brain injury) and I have to say, some people just doesn’t get it when it comes to a “invisible disability” they don’t. In this society it is obvious that our lives are out of control and unmanageable. It takes time to change for our self one day at a time.

The task is not to forget your past; as they say “It takes discipline to overcome your weakness.” This strengthens and feeds me today. Respecting my body and the first step is to avoid and eliminate the poison that goes in my body. All I know that the undesirable parts of us has to be removed and replaced with strong values. For so long I have lied to myself in order to meet my needs. Have you been there?  Only when I acknowledge that I had no power at all was I able to start making sense of the difficulties in my life. We can learn to survive by being honest to ourselves; we sometimes lose sight of our priorities. And no matter what our situation, thinking of ourselves as powerless and unable to change can feel very threatening and uncomfortable. All I have to say today is asking our Lord Jesus Christ to refine us into the person HE desire, teach us to rely on HIM for all that we need in life.

Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other. ~ Romans 12:10

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Simple but not easy

Being a TBI (traumatic brain injury) survivor, I will quote in what was said in the book of Age – proofing your memory by Dr Arlene Taylor. “Your brain is unique and no two brains are alike.” How much do you know about the brain? What’s sad, many people know very little about brain function this includes their own brain. It is said that high levels of stress or chronic stress can damage the brain. It can actually destroy brain cells. So, this journey continues with change in my life and I share with you that mentally that my survivor sisters and brothers can humbly see things differently in life. You have to ask to do things differently in your life; that is from my experience. I am not perfect, I know this. If we all look deep within ourselves, that we be more honest and thoughtful, maybe this world will be liked. It is good to change to understand ourselves in new ways and prepare us for our healing, recovery.

Traumatic Brain Injury, Stroke, Cancer, Domestic Violence, Diabetes and life’s other unexpected. I know from my experience that some of you know that you can or willing to change now, making yourself better. I’m not giving up! It’s time to give up our least favorite patterns of life. I realize I am not; you are not completely in charge of when and how our lives will change. We won’t regret the past, but we also don’t want to repeat it. We must be willing for change today, willing to let go of habits or traits that cause our lives to be unbalanced. As Tony Robins will say; “What is the pain that keeps me from achieving this goal?” “Change my approach until I achieve what I want.” Is this clear for us to see?

How far can we go to change? I am committed people! There will be days that will kick me in the butt. No way man! I can’t let that happen, you feel me? All I have to say that we all can be a perfect person to be in this society today! No matter whom you might be. Remember, I am the “Tiger Lady” strong and sure. You have to handle frustration if you want to become all you can become. So, this question is for you: what changes you wish to make in your life?

What you heard from me, keep as the pattern of sound teaching, with faith and love in Christ Jesus. Guard the good deposit that was entrusted to you – guard it with the help of the Holy Spirit who lives in us. ~ 2 Timothy 1:13-14

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This is the time to be free of all wreckage and move on to higher grounds. Having courage to change, asking God for his guidance to lead us in true direction in life. How can we gain peace if we are always down on ourselves, always in a hurry to do the right thing; before you know it, you are already in the midst of trouble.

This is familiar, right? “I’m so busy now.” “I just don’t have the time for you.” “I’m so worried about not having money.” “Life is so unfair.” My experience; I was blaming everybody for my mistakes and brain injury. I didn’t care! Today, I can say I do have the courage to go on, to reactivate myself within. I can’t live the past and many of us are living it this very second. Do we not realize this? This is a new beginning; you can agree with me or not agree with me. In fact, I know we continue to pass judgment or blaming others for our limitations, and we don’t take the time to look at ourselves to improve what we can do. I tell you, I am guilty of this.

In my experience, I’ve learned once you improve yourself, you won’t blame anyone because you are better. It’s the highest point we can touch, a point of true happiness. So, having the courage to change, we do find new balance in our lives, there is no need for jealousy, hatred, play the drama we see everyday and some believe it’s just the fact of life. Is it? It’s not real, it’s only drama played. Many of us are living the past and many not realize it. I’d like to share this story. I am a former professional boxer and TBI (traumatic brain injury) survivor. I am now opening my eyes to see what I have missed. I was tired of walking around feeling miserable. There was no joy in my heart and yet, I kept asking the Lord, “What is happening with me?” Feeling this way each day and wanted to know what my problem was.

I was full of denial, feeling sorry for myself. Mind you, I am coming out of the mist and I want allow the devil steal it from me through lies! As it is said “unbelief leads to disobedience.” Doubt is right along with unbelief.

The spirit of the Lord will come upon you in power, and you will prophesy with them; and you will be changed into a different person. Once these signs are fulfilled, do whatever your hand finds to do, for God is with you. ~ 1 Samuel 10:6-7

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I pray today that God will give me and you a great year to see. God will help you and me to challenge this mean-ness we see in ourselves and others today. God will encourage us to walk in the power of his Holy Spirit. Jesus Christ has come into our life. He makes us spiritually! Jesus said we could be born again. I know  I will start fresh like a new-born baby. When me and you ask Jesus into our life to us our savior. I ask that God gives us a clean slate. When you and me accept Christ as savior. God forgives our sins.

Unfortunately I still have old nature to contend with. I am still tempted to lie, cheat, steal, and be immoral. But I’m choosing to walk in the power of the Holy Spirit, overcoming my old sinful nature.

Therefore if any may be in Christ, he is a new creature : old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new. And all things are of God, who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation.    2 Corinthians 5:17-18

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